Thursday, November 20

Surprising! Exciting!

So with Jamie out of town this week, I'm finding that my morning shower has become much shorter and much less relaxing. Normally, we have a little routine. Wake up (not of own accord). Jamie brings Cole to bed if he's not already there. I nurse, Jamie showers. Cole and I play until Jamie is done. That makes it sound like he takes long, but he doesn't - Cole's just an efficient eater these days! Then Jamie takes Cole into the kitchen and gets breakfast started while I shower. Works great! Sometimes, if my bones hurt from extreme tiredness (and exaggerating), I actually take a bath, at great peril to my books. Be warned, if you borrow books from me, they've most likely been in the bathtub. We mix it up sometimes, but generally that's the pattern.

Well, with Jamie gone, so is my (somewhat/not really) leisurely morning moment... I've tried all sorts of things to keep Cole occupied while I'm showering. Forget a bath - I wouldn't even try that! I'm doing the quick shower thing, in and out in like three minutes. Just enough time to wash my face, use some soap, rinse and get out. I only wash my hair every few days and I don't even get it wet in between (shower cap, so becoming).

I block off the hallway between the bedroom and bathroom, leave the pocket door open and keep an eye on him. Good until he crawls over whatever barrier I've put up... Beeline for the toilet, as I've mentioned one thousand times now. I've tried bringing him into the shower, which was fun, but not very relaxing or cleansing for me... I don't like to leave him in the crib because I have an (irrational) fear of him suddenly learning to jump out of it while I'm showering... It's silly because he could wake up and learn to do that anytime anyway, so I don't know why I think he'd do it while I'm showering... Kind of like how for the longest time I stayed away from San Francisco because I had an irrational fear that there'd be a big earthquake when I was there. I've given up on that fear ages ago now and San Francisco is lovely, plus I suppose we live in an earthquake zone anyway so what am I scared of? By the way, I'm not crazy...

Anyway, so this morning I put Cole in the crib with a plethora (good word, unlike suboptimal) of toys, turned the baby monitor up to the highest level and placed it on the countertop. Had a good (enough) 3-minute shower and went off to check on Cole as soon as I was out. Well, whack me on the head with a wet noodle - he suddenly learned to stand on his own!

I came into the room and he was just standing in the corner of the crib, smiling at his reflection in the mirrored closet doors. He's so jolly. I let out some kind of surprised noise the second I rounded the corner - it was so odd to see him standing up like that! Grabbed the camera to document another first. He's been trying to get up to standing on his own for a week or so now, but I hadn't seen it like this ever, or in the crib. He stayed up for ages, until I lifted him out to go to the kitchen together. Next up was distracting him with objects from the cupboards while I made tea and loaded the dishwasher...

6 comments:

clara said...

Wow - that boy is going places! Sounds like you are right to be nervous leaving him alone...

I recommend a jumper for the bathroom doorway (if that works in your place) it is the only way I have stayed clean the past 2 years. they are ugly but very useful.

Patti said...

Holy crow, he is doing everything very quickly! I bet he's walking by 9 months. Good idea about the jumper in the bathroom door. I guess you don't have a playpen. I don't know what I would have done without one. I would put whoever in it and drag it to the door and have my shower. And, it only gets worse.... when they start to walk they get to all the bad places even faster! Oh joy, but what joy. He is just so cute. xoxox

Kim of Milkybeer Handmade said...

Yay Cole! Look at what a little man he is. Can't wait to see you guys next week.

miranda said...

Good suggestions...

We have a travel crib (in the trunk of the car!) that we should bring up and use as a playpen... I was hesitant to use it like that when Cole was wee because I thought it was kind of like baby jail, but that would be just the thing for times like this... Only problem is our small space and I don't think I could stand to see it sitting up all day and night, so I'd have to take it up and down, which is easy because it's a good one...

And we do have a stationary jumper that I hauled into the mirrored hallway this morning. It worked GREAT!!! Cole loved it, I could watch him and all was well...

Thank both for the great ideas that prompted me to look at solutions we have on hand!

Lindsay said...

Wow, I can't believe he's standing! Seems like these things are happening too fast to our wee ones. Can't they stay immobile a little longer!

Anonymous said...

Wow, he's really quite a bundle of energy,soon he will be jumping up & down on his mattress! Have you got a couple of baby gates yet? They might keep him within a smaller area or a safe room, without the door being closed.

 

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